The timeline of your groom’s outfit

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Claire Muir finds out all you need to know to make sure you pin down the perfect outfit for you (and your wedding party) in plenty of time.

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If you’re buying a new outfit for your big day (and why shouldn’t you?!), it’s never too early for your first consultation.

At Eight Yards, Natalie Hughff welcomes to-be-weds as early as possible to get an idea of what they’d like, whether that’s a year or even two years pre-wedding.

When it comes to actually buying, there are lots of factors at play time-wise – and they’re not just to do with the groom!

“We recommend leaving a minimum of eight months due to all the elements that need to be taken into consideration,” says Alexia Marcella at McCalls Highlandwear.

“Think about the season because certain times of year have longer lead times for outfits arriving. And because we want everything to fit perfectly, alterations may be needed, which take time.”

Hiring instead of buying doesn’t mean you can sit back and chill out though.

McCalls recommend making your first visit to the store nine or 10 months in advance of the big day because the numbers of outfits they have available at one time can vary.

And Gordon Nicolson Kiltmakers has noticed an uptake on hire outfits.

“There’s now a bigger selection and they’re now looking more like what you can purchase, with more choice in jackets, sporrans and other accessories,” Gordon explains.

“Plus you get others who want to own their own kilt but will hire the rest of the outfit.”

Of course, it’s not just the groom who’ll need to be dressed before you say ‘I do’.

Sorting outfits for the best man/men and groomsmen/women is usually the responsibility of the happy couple and Lee Carlton at Kilts 4 U recommends getting started a year in advance – especially if you’re getting wed in a peak month (April to September) or building your wedding theme around the tartan.

“More and more couples are doing this so it really helps with planning to make sure your outfit of choice is available.”

Craig Halley at Slanj Kilts agrees, “I always say that if you have the time, then use the time – especially as we operate on a first come, first served basis for kilt hires.

“And most bridal parties want to book a few kilts in the same style.”

That said, if a member of the wedding party doesn’t fit into a standard size hire kilt or your tartan isn’t in stock, the fab team at Slanj can usually make one for the occasion.

But weaving a specific tartan can add months to your delivery schedule – and it can be especially time-consuming at busier times.

Got women in your bridal party?

Natalie says there are no restrictions on wearing Highlandwear and she asks the same questions regardless of gender, “If it’s a purchase outfit, we can design, style and shape the outfit to them.

“But we’re more limited with hire garments. They’re designed with standard sizing and shapes in mind, and breasts aren’t taken into account. This doesn’t mean to say it hasn’t been or isn’t done, though.”

The kids are alright

When it comes to the smallest members of your line-up, the outfit timeline depends on their age.

“If you’re buying for an older child, over five, their kilt time can take almost as long as an adult,” advises Alexia.

“But a minimum of three months is recommended and we factor in possible growth spurts with our initial measurements.”

When hiring for little ones, McCalls advise a first fitting at least six months before the big day.

And to factor in growth, they’ll invite you back three to four weeks before the wedding for some final measurements.

And for the really, really little ones? McCalls has off-the-peg baby Velcro kilts… So cute!

The final touches

Your wedding day accessories (things like sporrans, kilt pins, watches, cufflinks and pocket squares) shouldn’t be overlooked – or left until the last minute!

In fact, Kilts 4 U advise on these when you book your hire or purchase.

“There are three main finishes for accessories – the sporran, sgian dubh and kilt pin are available in chrome, antique or copper.

“So, the one you pick depends on whether your outfit is traditional or something more contemporary, like tweed with a muted-style kilt and jacket,” explains Lee.

Meanwhile, Eight Yards’ bespoke Build-a-Sporran service gives you complete control over the look, feel and function.

“From selecting premium materials and choosing your own colour palette, to deciding on the internal layout and specific pocket configurations – every detail is tailored to your vision,” adds Natalie.

“For an extra special touch, we can even apply laser engraving to the front or back of the sporran.”

And at Slanj, Craig reminds customers that although they keep a lot of accessories in stock there aren’t usually any great numbers of each product.

So, if you’re looking for several of the same item as wedding presents – cufflinks or hip flasks, for example – you’ll want to shop early.

It’s similar if you want a ceremonial accessory (like a handfasting material) to match your wedding party tartan, or if you want to dress up your furry friends in accessories or outfits that match you.

Gordon Nicolson has seen a surge in doggy accessories too, as well as couples looking for something a bit different.

“Our tartan roses are a bouquet you can use on the day (especially if you’re eloping in the middle of nowhere and don’t have access to nice, fresh flowers) but keep forever as a decoration and constant reminder of your wedding.”

Last-minute dot com

For many, pre-wedding prep can mean trying to get to a place where you feel like the best version of yourself and for some this might mean slimming down or bulking up.

 But, of course, this means your shape could change right up until the wedding and last-minute alterations might be needed.

“The best way to know if you need resizing is if you find your own everyday clothes no longer fit.

“This is the best alarm bell to know to come in and see us,” urges Natalie.

Her cut-off point for ‘emergency outfit edits’ would be 16 weeks before the wedding for a jacket, vest and trews, and four weeks before for a kilt.

Meanwhile, Craig says Slanj can do basic, small adjustments quite quickly, and they stock extender straps for kilts, which give a few extra inches.

But more substantial alterations can take a lot longer.

“If a kilt needs to be significantly resized, then it has to go into the queue and it can take as long as getting a brand new kilt.

All the accessories

Because no outfit is complete without stylish and meaningful finishing touches.

From left to right: Spirit of Glasgow tie, (£25), Slanj, Stainless steel hip flasks in exclusive Kilts 4 U tartan, (£39.99 each), Kilts 4 U, Fully customisable Build-a-Sporran service, (from £200), Eight Yards, Stag antlers cufflinks, (£20), Slanj and Thistle Crest kilt pin in antique pewter finish, (£30), McCalls Highlandwear.

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